4 Jenis Sabar..

Seketika dulu, ana pernah berjanji untuk menulis serba sedikit berkaitan sabar. (Rujuk Sedih Gembira Fitrah Hidup). InsyaAllah di kesempatan ini ana menulis secara ringkas jenis-jenis sabar yang ana rujuk dari Kitab Risalatul Mu'awanah oleh Al-Imam Abdullah Al-Haddad dan ana huraikan berdasarkan kitab-kitab lain dan apa yang ana pelajari, insyaAllah.

Menurut beliau, kesabaran boleh dibahagikan kepada 4 bahagian utama. Bahagian-bahagian tersebut ialah :

1) Kesabaran untuk membuat ketaatan
2) Kesabaran dalam menahan diri dari kemaksiatan
3) Kesabaran atas perkara-perkara yang dibenci
4) Kesabaran atas nafsu dan syahawat

Beliau juga, dalam salah satu majlis, telah menerangkan bahawa sesungguhnya mereka yang menerima ujian pada zaman ini terbahagi kepada tiga golongan :

1) Golongan yang redha dan bertenang menghadapi ujian. Ganjaran untuk mereka adalah diangkat darjat mereka.

2) Golongan yang gelisah menghadapi ujian tetapi tidak membantahnya. Ganjaran untuk mereka pula adalah dihapuskan dosa.

3) Golongan yang gelisah dan membantah pula ujian yang dihadapi. Mereka akan mendapat kemurkaan dan balasan yang buruk.


Berbalik kepada bahagian-bahagian kesabaran tadi, cuba kita lihat satu persatu. Kesabaran dalam melakukan ketaatan boleh kita lihat dalam mendidik jiwa untuk rajin dan tabah mengerjakan amal ibadat. Solat yang fardhu dan sunnah, sedekah yang fardhu dan sunnah, begitu juga puasa, haji, wirid harian, dan lain-lain amalan ketaatan kepada Allah baik yang khas mahupun yang am, memerlukan kesabaran dalam diri untuk melakukannya.

Namun begitu, bagi mereka yang telah sampai ke maqam Al-'Arif, segala ibadat tidak dirasakan melainkan perasaan yang lazat dan ketenangan. Al-Imam Al-Haddad ada menyebut: Sesiapa yang melazimi sifat sabar, akan sampai ke maqam Al-Qurb (hampir dgn Allah), dan di sana dia akan mendapati pada amal ibadatnya, kemanisan, kelazatan dan ketenangan yang tidak tergambar.

Betapa indahnya jika kita dapat merasai kemanisan begitu. Namun syaratnya seperti yang telah disebutkan oleh Al-Imam Al-Haddad adalah melazimi kesabaran. Pertamanya, sabar dalam istiqamah melakukan perkara yang wajib. Kemudian istiqamah dalam meningkatkan pula kualiti amalan kita itu dari sudut khusyuk dan sempurnanya. Seiringan itu kesabaran dalam beristiqamah melakukan perkara-perkara yang sunnah.

Bukankah di dalam hadis qudsi ada disebutkan bahawa tidak mendekatkan diri seorang hamba kepada Allah dengan mengerjakan amalan sunnah, melainkan Allah akan menjadi Penunjuk kepada setiap langkah, perbuatan, pendegaran, penglihatan dan percakapannya. Apabila telah dekat diri kita dengan Allah, maka tentu sekali segala amalan tersebut menjadi kemanisan buat kita.

Cuba kita lihat. Apa jua yang ingin kita lakukan pada mulanya menuntut kesabaran. Si anak kecil, ketika mula-mula belajar makan, betapa sukar untuk memasukkan makanan ke dalam mulut. Selalu saja terbabas dari destinasi. Kadang terbabas ke dagu, kadang terbabas ke pipi, kadang ke hidung dan kadang sampai ke telinga. Namun berkat kesabaranlah kita semua mampu untuk makan dengan sempurna hari ini.

Begitu jua dengan amalan kita. Ambil contoh bacaan wirid selepas solat, ma'tsurat atau ratib-ratib yang ada. Kita perlukan kesabaran untuk terus membacanya dengan istiqamah. Berkat kesabaran kita, insyaAllah satu hari tanpa kita membacanya kita akan rasa kekosongan dan tidak sempurna hidup. Seperti sesorang yang berpisah dengan kekasih lagaknya. Nah, itu merupakan satu tanda kita telah mula menikmati kelazatan ibadat tersebut.

Ya Allah kurniakan kami kesabaran dalam mengerjakan amal ibadat mentaati-Mu! Amiin..

(Bersambung..)

ThinK About It

SAYINGS (HADITH) OF PROPHET MUHAMMAD (Sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam)The one who disdains the prayers will receive Fifteen punishments from
Allah.

Six punishments in this lifetime
Three while dying
Three in the grave &
Three on the Day of Judgment.

THE SIX PUNISHMENTS OF LIFE:
1. Allah takes away blessings from his age (makes his life
misfortunate)
2.Allah does not accept his plea (Dua's)
3.Allah erases the features of good people from his face.
4.He will be detested by all creatures on earth.
5.Allah does not award him for his good deeds. (No thawab)
6.He will not be included in the Dua's o f good people.

THE THREE PUNISHMENTS WHILE DYING:
1. He dies humiliated.
2. He dies hungry.
3. He dies thirsty. Even if he drinks the water of all seas he will
still
be thirsty.

THE THREE PUNISHMENTS IN THE GRAVE:
1. Allah tightens his grave until his chest ribs come over each other.
2. Allah pours on him fire with embers.
3. Allah sets on him a snake called "the brave", "the bold" which hits
Him
from morning until afternoon for leaving Fajr prayer, from the
afternoon
until Asr for leaving Dhuhr prayer and so on. With each strike he
sinks 70
yards under the ground.

THE THREE PUNISHMENTS ON THE DAY OF JUDGMENT:
1. Allah sends who would accompany him to hell pulling him on the
face.
2. Allah gives him an angry look that makes the flesh of his face fall
down.
3. Allah judges him strictly and orders him to be thrown in hell.
Note: If you get this copy, please make copies of it and distribute
them
among all Muslims. You will be earning a Reward as well as helping to
show
your brother the Right Path. May Allah give guidance to all of us.
AAMEEN!!!!!!!

STUPID QUESTIONS WITH THE SMART ANSWERS:

BOY : May I hold your hand?
GIRL : No thanks, it isn't heavy.

GIRL : Say you love me! Say you love me!
BOY : You love me...

GIRL : If we become engaged will you give me a ring??
BOY : Sure, what's your phone number??

GIRL : I think the poorest people are the happiest.
BOY : Then marry me and we'll be the happiest couple

GIRL : Darling, I want to dance like this forever.
BOY : Don't you ever want to improve??

BOY : I love you and I could die for you!
GIRL : How soon??

BOY : I would go to the end of the world for you!
GIRL : Yes, but would you stay there??

SHARON : Have you ever had a hot passionate, burning kiss??
TRACY : I did once. He'd forgotten to take the cigarette out of his mouth.

MAN : You remind me of the sea.
WOMAN : Because I'm wild, romantic and exciting?
MAN : NO, because you make me sick.

WIFE : You tell a man something, it goes in one ear and comes out of the other.
HUSBAND : You tell a woman something: It goes in both ears and comes out of the mouth.

MARY : John says I'm pretty. Andy says I'm ugly.What do u think,
Peter?
PETER : A bit of both. I think you're pretty ugly.

Girlfriend : "...And are you sure you love me and no one else ?"
Boyfriend : "Dead Sure! I checked the whole list again yesterday".

Teacher : "Which is more important to us, the sun or the moon?"
Pupil : "The moon".
Teacher : "Why?"
Pupil : "The moon gives us light at night when we need it but the sun gives us light only in the day time when we don't need it".

Teacher : "What do you call a person who keeps on talking when people are no longer interested?"
Pupil : "A teacher".

Waiter : "Would you like your coffee black?"
Customer : "What other colors do you have?"

My father is so old that when he was in school, history was called current affairs.

Teacher : "Sam, you talk a lot !"
Sam : "It's a family tradition".
Teacher : "What do you mean?"
Sam : "Sir, my grandpa was a street hawker, my father is a teacher".
Teacher : "What about your mother?"
Sam : "She's a woman".

Tom : "How should I convey the news to my father that I've failed?"
David: "You just send a telegram: Result declared, past year's performance repeated".

Teacher : "Now, children, if I saw a man beating a donkey and stopped him, what virtue would I be showing?"
Student : "Brotherly love".

Teacher : "Now, Sam, tell me frankly do you say prayers before eating?"
Sam : "No sir, I don't have to, my mom is a good cook".

Patient : "What are the chances of my recovering doctor?"
Doctor : "One hundred percent. Medical records show that nine out of ten people die of the disease you have. Yours is the tenth case I've treated. The others all died".

Teacher : " Can anybody give an example of COINCIDENCE?"
One Student : "Sir, my Mother and Father got married on the same day and at the same time."

Teacher : " George Washington not only chopped down his father's Cherry tree, but also admitted doing it.
Now do you know why his father didn't punish him ?"
One Student: " Because George still had the axe in is hand."